Are you unconventional? That's ok! Embrace everything that you are and shine. When I meet my husband, I never thought I would end up with someone younger than me, and he was a single dad with an infant to boot. People love to give you advice because of their version of "normal." To provide you with an idea of us...we're both tattooed, and our wedding colours were red and black. Nothing about us is very "traditional," and we're a happy little family for it. Life is too short to live by other people's standards. As long as you're a good person and aren't harming anyone, then enjoy your unconventional ways.